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An activity for parents and caring adults of youth ages 10 to 18

What's in this room?

This room belongs to a teen. Eight things in it can open a talk about gambling. Choose each one to see what to look for and what to say. One item does not mean there is a problem. Each one is a reason to talk.

0 of 8 found

A betting app

What to look for

A sports betting app or betting site on a phone.

Why it matters

In New York, you must be 21 to bet on sports. Among boys who gambled, about 1 in 3 (34%) took part in sports betting, fantasy sports or other sports contests.

Try saying

I saw this app on your phone. How do kids your age use it?

Source: 2, 1

Scratch-off tickets

What to look for

Lottery or scratch-off tickets, even ones given as a gift.

Why it matters

You must be 18 to play most lottery games in New York. Even so, 1 in 4 boys (25%) said they have played lottery or scratch-off tickets with family. Childhood exposure to gambling often comes through a lottery product.

Try saying

Who gave you these? Let's talk about why they are for adults.

Source: 2, 1, 3

Loot boxes in a game

What to look for

A game that sells loot boxes: paid packs with random prizes.

Why it matters

Loot boxes cost real money and the prize is left to chance. In a survey of 1,155 teens ages 16 to 18, those who spent more on loot boxes had more gambling problems. The study does not show which one comes first.

Try saying

Show me how this game works. What do you get when you pay?

Source: 4

A stack of gift cards

What to look for

More gift cards than you would expect, or cards with no clear source.

Why it matters

Money for gambling does not always come from a bank card. Among boys who gamble, 18% of ages 14 to 17 and 10% of ages 11 to 13 used gift cards or money gifts.

Try saying

What are you saving these for? Where did they come from?

Source: 1

New betting words

What to look for

Notes or talk with words such as bookies, chips or point spread.

Why it matters

New gambling words can be a sign that a teen is spending time around betting.

Try saying

I don't know this word. What does point spread mean?

Source: 5

Cards, dice and chips

What to look for

Card or dice games where money or dares are on the line.

Why it matters

A card game is fine on its own. Ask what is at stake. Friends matter: 84% of boys whose friends mostly gamble also gamble, compared with 17% of boys with no friends who gamble.

Try saying

When you and your friends play, do you play for money?

Source: 1

Cash and new things

What to look for

Cash or new things that a teen's own money cannot explain, or money missing at home.

Why it matters

Boys who lost $51 or more in a year were nearly three times as likely to use a parent's card without asking (21%, compared with 8% of boys who lost less).

Try saying

Those shoes look new. I'm not upset. How did you pay for them?

Source: 5, 1

Gambling videos online

What to look for

Videos or live streams of people spinning wheels, opening packs or placing bets.

Why it matters

Almost 3 in 4 boys (74%) who lost $51 or more in a year watch gambling content. About half (48%) of boys with smaller losses do.

Try saying

Who do you like to watch? What do they do on their stream?

Source: 1

You found all eight

You now have eight ways to start a talk. Stay calm, ask, and listen. In a national survey, 36% of boys ages 11 to 17 said they gambled in the past year. Source: 1

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If you are worried

Call the 24/7 HOPEline at 1-877-8-HOPENY or text HOPENY (467369). Source: 6

Sources

  1. Common Sense Media. Betting on Boys: Understanding Gambling Among Adolescent Boys. 2026. National survey of 1,017 boys ages 11 to 17, July 2025.
  2. Liebman, B. The State of New York Gambling. New York State Bar Association. May 5, 2025.
  3. National Council on Problem Gambling. Gift Responsibly Campaign.
  4. Zendle, D., Meyer, R., Over, H. Adolescents and loot boxes: links with problem gambling and motivations for purchase. Royal Society Open Science. 2019.
  5. McGill University, International Centre for Youth Gambling Problems and High-Risk Behaviors. Warning signs (for parents).
  6. NYS Office of Addiction Services and Supports. Take a Pause campaign.