An activity for parents and caring adults of youth ages 10 to 18
What's in this room?
This room belongs to a teen. Eight things in it can open a talk about gambling. Choose each one to see what to look for and what to say. One item does not mean there is a problem. Each one is a reason to talk.
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Start with any item in the room.
A betting app
What to look for
A sports betting app or betting site on a phone.
Why it matters
In New York, you must be 21 to bet on sports. Among boys who gambled, about 1 in 3 (34%) took part in sports betting, fantasy sports or other sports contests.
Try saying
I saw this app on your phone. How do kids your age use it?
Lottery or scratch-off tickets, even ones given as a gift.
Why it matters
You must be 18 to play most lottery games in New York. Even so, 1 in 4 boys (25%) said they have played lottery or scratch-off tickets with family. Childhood exposure to gambling often comes through a lottery product.
Try saying
Who gave you these? Let's talk about why they are for adults.
A game that sells loot boxes: paid packs with random prizes.
Why it matters
Loot boxes cost real money and the prize is left to chance. In a survey of 1,155 teens ages 16 to 18, those who spent more on loot boxes had more gambling problems. The study does not show which one comes first.
Try saying
Show me how this game works. What do you get when you pay?
More gift cards than you would expect, or cards with no clear source.
Why it matters
Money for gambling does not always come from a bank card. Among boys who gamble, 18% of ages 14 to 17 and 10% of ages 11 to 13 used gift cards or money gifts.
Try saying
What are you saving these for? Where did they come from?
Card or dice games where money or dares are on the line.
Why it matters
A card game is fine on its own. Ask what is at stake. Friends matter: 84% of boys whose friends mostly gamble also gamble, compared with 17% of boys with no friends who gamble.
Try saying
When you and your friends play, do you play for money?
Cash or new things that a teen's own money cannot explain, or money missing at home.
Why it matters
Boys who lost $51 or more in a year were nearly three times as likely to use a parent's card without asking (21%, compared with 8% of boys who lost less).
Try saying
Those shoes look new. I'm not upset. How did you pay for them?
You now have eight ways to start a talk. Stay calm, ask, and listen. In a national survey, 36% of boys ages 11 to 17 said they gambled in the past year. Source: 1